Friday, February 27, 2009
My thoughts on love and beauty...
Relationships can work if both parties invest in the relationship. No not just money but love, time, emotions, and patience. If you really love someone you will give them yourself as you are. You will be able to be yourself and show all of your emotions. You help each other through the rough times, and laugh together through all the good times. When one is sad the other tries to make them happy, when one is mad the other listens, and tries to help figure out the circumstances. When alone you miss the other one. This is how I see it you may agree or you may disagree and you are entitled to your own opinions. But If you really love someone you try to show that person any way you can. If that person needs help you try to do what you can to help. If that person needs an ear to listen you try to be that ear. You can do all the things you do in any other relationship with one exception you don't have the physical contact all the time if it is a long distance relationship. But even with out it you can love that person just as much.
It is often said and I agree:
1 "If you have to work for what you want, and you truly earn it then it is worth it in the end."
2 "Nothing in this life that is worth having ever comes easy."
3 "life is only as good as you make it, so if you want it then make it happen."
4 "If it is a true and honest love then you can never let it go."
5 "Two wrongs don't make a right so we must not be wrong if we are right for each other."
There is one saying I do-not fully agree with:
1 "Beauty is only skin deep."
Well with some people maybe it can be. Well then that's not what I look for. I feel true beauty is the whole package. I believe beauty is not only in the looks, disposition, attitude, heart, and soul of each individual person but also in there character.
You may look beautiful in the mirror but you may be one of the ugliest people on the planet. You may be self centered, self serving, rude, obnoxious, and just down right mean. To me these do not constitute a beautiful person. I DONT CARE WHAT THAT MIRROR SAYS.
You may have a physical difference of any kind and it does not mean you are not beautiful, you may not, you may be kind, gentle, caring, loving, giving, and always think of others first. To me these types of traits constitutes a beautiful person. These are only some of the things I see in Nancy that's what makes her so special to me...
So my question to each of you is:
Can you look in the mirror and truly see a beautiful person or have you been fooling yourself by believing looks are everything...